Monthly Archives: March 2010

The Doctor Will See You Now?

With the passing of the health care reform bill this past week, it seemed like the appropriate time to figure out exactly what this legislation means.  I’ll admit, I didn’t do such a good job paying attention to the debates, the previous bills, etc. There’s only so much a person can accomplish in a day!  However, as an uninsured, though very employed, American, I wanted to find out; will this legislation help me, an uninsured twenty-something, gain insurance?

To find out the answer to this pressing question, I inundated myself with information. I read countless articles in reliable and not so reliable newspapers, I watched the local news and PBS Newshour, read any blog post I could find on the matter, found quick synopses that summed up the bill into a very readable list, and I even tried to read the health care bill itself.

Through all the information I took in last week, I found the answer to my question.  Given my present situation, no, this legislation will not help me gain insurance, meaning I will still have to pay $175 to see a doctor for 15 minutes.  It’s hard to celebrate the triumph of health care reform when I am not directly impacted. I fear that people who are deserving of health insurance will still not receive what they need.

That being said, I still support expanding health care coverage, but my major concern is that expanding coverage does not have anything to do with the quality of health care rendered to patients. I believe every American deserves to have access to see the doctor at an affordable price. However, I know that just because a person has insurance does not mean they will necessarily be covered to see a quality doctor.

While living in Massachusetts, I had a couple of friends that were required to buy insurance because of state mandates.  Any resident who did not receive insurance through their employer had to buy basic coverage.   This insurance only covered basic prescriptions, not even doctor visits. Thus, they, too had to pay the overwhelmingly high out-of-pocket costs to see the doctor. 

Unfortunately, I fear this limited coverage promotes a culture of only seeing the doctor when you are sick instead of practicing preventative medicine.  The focus should be on quality care for everyone. We would be saving ourselves some serious money if we focused more on healthy lifestyles as opposed to dealing with health problems after the fact.

Please Won’t You Be My Neighbor?

Today, March 20th, is the late Mr. Rogers’ birthday.  If you’ve never had Mr. Rogers introduce you to his friends as his “television neighbor,” then you’ve seriously missed out.  Apparently a whole generation of kids will be missing out as PBS has severely cut airing time for Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood.  In Tuesday’s New York Times, it was mentioned that PBS no longer airs Mr. Rogers on a daily basis.  Member stations now air the program once a week, if that.

Once a week?! I used to watch Mr. Rogers twice daily; once after morning kindergarten and once after my afternoon nap.  With the show now airing once a week, today’s kids just won’t get to know Mr. Rogers.  They will be missing out on the much-needed daily dose of the Mr. Rogers experience.  I can’t even fathom what that must feel like.

Every child needs to hear from a young age from the mouth of a television role model that they are liked just the way they are.  I don’t think kids hear that enough and Hannah Montana  isn’t exactly delivering that sort of message.

In honor of the greatest neighbor in town, here’s a look at some of the lessons learned from Mr. Rogers.

1) You’ve made this day a special day, by just being yourself. Mr. Rogers made sure he mentioned that every single episode. So reaffirming.  Mr. Rogers had a way of making his audience feel unique and deserving of a good life and had countless songs that drove the point home.

2) By finding common ground with people, you can relate to anyone; even a tiger that lives in a clock.  Mr. Rogers sought to find commonalities of experience among all of the people he came in contact with. In addition, Rogers and his neighbors kept some pretty eccentric company; Cornflake Especially, King Friday, Lady Elaine Fairchild, and the Platypus family come to mind.

3) It’s okay to be in a bad mood and think evil thoughts. Mr. Rogers sang a song called “Scary Mad Wishes” about how he wished a dragon would burn his dad’s store because he felt his dad was ignoring him.  He owned his evil thoughts, showing us that thinking mean thoughts is a good way to blow off steam.  Who can forget King Friday’s often scary demeanor?! Lots of neighbors in the Neighborhood of Make Believe were terrified of him, but he was the most revered figure.

4) Bad things happen to good people. Prince Tuesday had major meltdowns, Daniel Striped Tiger got pretty emotional and scared, Henrietta Pussycat’s house was on fire once, Lady Elaine Fairchild plotted evil revenge against her neighbors, Queen Sarah fell off the Eiffel Tower, and someone once steal Daniel Striped Tiger’s clock house.  However, they all managed to make it through.

5) Change out of your work clothes when you get home.  It’ll be fun! I’ll admit, I used to throw my shoes over my head when I came home after school.

6) Ride your bike whenever possible. Mr McFeely, the Speedy Delivery man, always delivered his packages on his bike. In record time!

7) Love music. Music was an integral part of Mr. Roger’s neighborhood, beyond the obvious songs he sang regularly. His neighbor, Francois Clemens, was a singer, and Mr. Rogers made frequent visits to Joe Negri’s music shop.  In fact, Yo-Yo Ma performed there once.

8 ) Appreciate your hard-working neighbors. Mr. Rogers celebrated the professions of his neighbors by taking the audience on trips around the city, highlighting the work that people did. We met artists, chefs, musicians, fix-it men, people who made robots, and other factory workers.  These visits instilled a deep appreciation for the working person.

9) It’s necessary to visit the Neighborhood of Make Believe once a day. We all need time to space out and enjoy a world of our own creation.

And how ’bout that Picture, Picture?! What a contraption!  One moment it was a painting, the next it projected an insightful video on how crayons were made at the factory. Mr. McFeely would always pop by with the latest hit video and bam, Picture,Picture delivered!  Also, do you know anyone that has a traffic light in their living room? Another reason Mr. Rogers was in a league of his own.

It’s a travesty that Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood will no longer be a staple of today’s children’s television programing. In 1969, Fred Rogers defended funding PBS to the Senate, citing the fact that he was scared about how children of that era were bombarded with low quality television.  It’s alarmingly still relevant today.

Parental Accountability, Anyone?

“I ripped the Obama sticker off of my truck.  We worked hard for this man, we talked to our neighbors and our fellow teachers about why we should support him, and we’re having to dig the knife out of our back.” — Zeph Capo, Houston Federation of Teachers

Hearing about President Obama’s support of a Rhode Island schools district’s decision to fire all of its teachers and the Boston Public Schools’ plan to follow suit  infuriates me to no end. I’m not one to get angry, but the more I read about this debacle, the more I want to throw things across the room and kick over my neighbor’s trash cans.  As a teacher who has taught in two different urban middle schools in metro Boston, I am no stranger to the ins and outs of the increased pressure to meet standards and to perform well on standardized tests.  I once had to administer a standardized test to a boy who had literally just arrived from El Salvador the day before.  Since he was on the school’s roster, he had to take the test.  Otherwise, the school would have been penalized.  Not only did he not speak any English, he had no idea why I was watching him fill in bubbles with a number 2 pencil.  From my experiences and from what I’ve been hearing about in the news, the fact is everyone loves to hold the teachers accountable for the failings of public education .  While I do not deny there are poor quality teachers who should step away from the profession, I am wondering: WHAT ABOUT THE PARENTS?!  Why does the success of the student fall solely on the teacher? Why should teachers be held responsible for the shortcomings of students’ parents?

A teacher can promote high standards until she is blue in the face, but it means nothing if it is not reinforced at home. In my experiences, the highest achieving students were the ones whose parents were the most supportive and most involved in their lives.  These were the parents who showed up to parent/teacher conferences, who made phone calls, or sent e-mails when in doubt, and who volunteered to chaperone on field trips.

On the other hand,  many parents are unable to show up to conferences, meetings, make phone calls, and it’s not their fault. The playing field is not equal. Some parents work during conference times, are unable to volunteer at the school because of work, or are single parents who do not have the luxury of balancing their kid’s schedules with another adult. Other parents work three jobs to make ends meet so that their children can have better opportunities than they did, leaving little free time to spend with their children.  There are also parents who don’t always feel comfortable approaching the school or participating at school for cultural reasons.  The language barrier alone can be intimidating.

Still, I believe that the quality of parenting is directly correlated to a school’s achievement rate.  When kids are coming to school angry from something they witnessed at home, with poor hygiene, exhausted from lack of sleep, and hungry, learning is the last thing on their mind.  Stop blaming the teachers. Focus on where parents and families are struggling and figure out what can be done to help them grow stronger.  The school and outlying community need to come together as a whole and support struggling parents and families.  Low performing schools cannot be improved by simply firing all its teachers, they can be fixed if communities start to address the real issues behind low achievement.

King of the World (Again)

Just when I thought we were finished with director James Cameron for good, he returns from his hiding place to create and direct this year’s most talked about blockbuster, Avatar. Avatar has broken movie records while taking animation into the next dimension.  In addition, the film is up for a record amount of Oscars at this Sunday’s Academy Awards.  I haven’t seen Avatar, but I heard and read enough about the mind-boggling animation.

You know what else is mind-boggling? That Avatar has grabbed so many nominations. I never saw that one coming. I have a hard time with cartoon films–sorry animated pictures–earning Academy Awards. There. I said it. I don’t actually have a problem with animated movies, I’ve seen and loved many, but in theory I don’t take them as seriously as I should. It’s just that I equate animation with The Flintstones and Disney; I’m not looking to be challenged on a philosophical level by animation. I prefer to watch animation while lying around my house in my jammies, eating the kinds of snacks I only eat in the comfort of my own home .

Here’s another tidbit about this year’s Oscars that boggles my mind. In the Best Director category, James Cameron goes head to head with his ex-wife, the director of The Hurt Locker. James Cameron left his wife for an actress that was in his other film, you know that one about that ship that hit an iceberg…oh yeah, Titanic. There’s a lot riding on that award. If he wins it’s like, “Not only did I leave you high and dry for another woman who I find more attractive, but I am also a more talented director than you!” If she wins, it’s like, “Cheating men never prosper!”

Speaking of Titanic, I miss those days. Not because I loved that movie, but because I loved that Academy Awards Show. The 70th Academy Awards is still my all time favorite awards show. As far as I’m concerned, it’s been all downhill since then.  That was the year Matt Damon and Ben Affleck became respected stars with their Best Original Screenplay win for writing my favorite movie of all time, Good Will Hunting. Robin Williams won Best Supporting Actor for a serious role, also in Good Will Hunting . Elliott Smith, one of my favorite singers who unfortunately took his own life in 2003, performed “Miss Misery,” which happened to be the theme from Good Will Hunting. Celene Dion punched her own chest in a fit of emotion while performing Titanic’s theme, “My Heart Will Go On.”  Helen Hunt won for As Good As it Gets then later divorced her husband, who happened to play her dog walker on Mad About You, thus starting the trend of Best Actress winners getting divorced.  The epic awards show that was the 70th Annual Academy Awards has ruined me for future Oscar telecasts. I am never completely satisfied when watching the Oscars.  

In honor of this Sunday’s Oscars, here’s a video clip of Elliott Smith’s performance at the  Academy Awards: